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29.2.16

Living A Self-Approved Life

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Our whole lives we are constantly looking outside of ourselves for love, approval and to fit in. This first happens as a child - when we adapt to meet our parents needs so that we can get love.

Then, as we get older, it could be a group of friends, or adapt to how we think our romantic partner thinks we should be - or the opposite - we rebel against how anyone thinks we should be and we stand out by not fitting in.

No matter how we slice it, adapting ourselves to fitting in or being a rebel and standing out – all of these behaviors stem from our thoughts about what other people think.

Living our lives from the perspective of what other people think can create massive pain in our lives. Because when we act based on what other people think, we are acting from the place, that is - "I'm not enough, so I am going to change myself to be enough."

However through feeling this pain, we always come back to ourselves.We stop identifying with what other people think we should be, or we stop rebelling against other people - and instead tune within and listen to whom we really are. 

We start to belong to ourselves and express ourselves - we put out a different frequency and, as a result, we start attracting and meeting people who are on that new wave length. And what's amazing in doing so, we no longer need to chase people. When we belong to ourselves, we find who else we belong to.

Start living a self-approved life today.

TODAY'S QUOTE 

When we consistently suppress and distrust our intuitive knowingness, looking instead for authority, validation, and approval from others, we give our personal power away.

Shakti Gawain

TODAY'S AFFIRMATION 

I am enough.
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